Instead of getting caught up in the commercialism of Valentine’s Day, why not take this opportunity to reflect on what Scripture says about true love? Let this be a day to teach our children that love is not just about romance, but about kindness, patience, selflessness, and faithfulness, qualities found in 1 Corinthians 13.
One of the most meaningful ways to celebrate Valentine’s Day as a family is by turning to Scripture. 1 Corinthians 13, often called the “Love Chapter,” gives us a beautiful description of love—not as fleeting emotion, but as an enduring virtue.
Read 1 Corinthians 13 as a family. This passage teaches us about true, Godly love. Discuss with your children how the love described here differs from the love often portrayed in movies and media. Focus on these powerful words:
"Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends." (1 Corinthians 13:4-8)
Encourage your children to think about how they can practice this kind of love in their daily lives—with their siblings, their friends, and even those who may be difficult to love.
Make “Valentines” with a purpose. Instead of simply exchanging store-bought cards, create your own meaningful valentines. Write out one of the attributes of love from 1 Corinthians 13 on each card. Then, share them with family, friends, neighbors, or anyone who might need encouragement. These handmade valentines become a tangible reminder of Christ-like love.
Put love into action. Valentine’s Day is the perfect opportunity to practice acts of kindness. Serve a meal to someone in need, write a heartfelt note of appreciation, or spend time in prayer for those who are hurting. Love is most powerful when it is lived out.
This Valentine’s Day, let’s reclaim the beauty of love, not just the romantic kind, but the love that reflects the heart of Christ. Let’s use this day to teach our children that love is patient, kind, and selfless, and that we are called to share that love with the world.
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